Friday, September 16, 2005
Maintaining a Relationship
Recently there are too many long-term relationships broken up… quite sadden by all this “happenings”.
My buddy and his girlfriend (I've seen them together since secondary school days). They seem to be such loving couples, always so sweet and care for each other. Very long relationship indeed, close to 7yrs. They were the couple that all of us thought that were the first to issue the “red bomb” to us, the model couple of us dreamed-to-be. Irregardless of the differences in educational level they are still very close to each other.- My dear’s “sister” and her fiancé. Booked ROM date, gotten their flat but the least I could expect from this sweet couple was that they have also broken up. Why? I thought of….? *deep thought* I always thought that for 2 person to be together takes fate and to BE committed (I mean marriage) takes even more courage and deep consideration to take this big step.
Well who are we to judge other’s relationship. We can always only be the adviser and 旁观者, we can’t say whose in the right or wrong. If we can really make that judgment, we wouldn’t be here in this world to experience all these things that are going around us.
Jason wrote:
两个人在一起，不是我们想得那么简单，
两个人分开，也不是我们想得那么复杂。
Learning from other’s experience is important, so that we wouldn’t make the same mistakes.
Getting up from a failure takes courage and lots of support from the inner YOU.
Knowing failure but failing to acknowledge it is escaping.
Important: When you think that feelings are overwhelming you, making you feel weak and unable to cope, use the last muscle that is in you… your HEART. It’s the strongest muscle both physically and mentally.
Disclaimer: The above personnel name have not been mention to protect their confidentiality.
